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HWTM 5 Year Blogiversary

So… I should start off by saying that this post really should’ve been up back in June – on June 26, 2011 to be exact – but the fact that it’s up at all is kind of a mini miracle at this point (full story below). And, as it turns out, the more-than-2-months-late post date is actually kind of perfect…

…because now that it’s finally up & done, I’ve come to realize that this post – which so innocently started out as what was supposed to be a mini “virtual celebration” of the 5-year anniversary of this blog, has instead unwittingly become the perfect metaphor for my last 5 years of blogging: filled with shiny moments, not-so-shiny moments, full blown fall-on-your-face crashes, and multiple restarts… to use computer terminology. And despite the obstacles this project presented, I couldn’t help but laugh when I realized that…and might even venture to say there’s something I kind of love about it (hello there, silver lining).

Here’s the full story, plus a super inspiring video just because I think you’ll really love it too…

HWTM 5 Year Blogiversary

HWTM 5 Year Blogiversary


As I mentioned before, this little photo shoot/project was originally supposed to be in celebration of the 5 year anniversary of this blog, which officially occurred on June 26th (hooray!). I’ve never really done anything to celebrate “blog birthdays” or “blog-iversaries” before, but 5 is such a nice round number that I thought it deserved some sort of little virtual “hurrah” this time, and what better place to host a virtual celebration than on the blog itself – where the people that keep me blogging every day also happen to be – right? Yes… my thoughts exactly. =)

So…using the “celebration” aspect & colors of the blog as my inspiration, I set out to design a “computer geek meets girlie glam” type of theme, which should only sound like a ridiculous theme to those that don’t read, follow, or author girlie lifestyle blogs themselves… or “woman-oriented” lifestyle blogs for a more sophisticated sounding description.

HWTM 5 Year Blogiversary

I made 2 signs to serve as the focal point of the table, but it was too hard to stagger them diagonally with 1) no wall to lean against outside and 2) the wind factor described below, so I settled for shooting them one at a time.

HWTM 5 Year Blogiversary

I also wanted this post/project to serve as an inspirational how-to for or for my fellow bloggers looking to celebrate their own blog-iversaries – OR for anyone that’s looking for computer related party inspiration in general (think robot parties, gaming parties, etc). So the plan was to do a mini shoot at home mocking up some of the party ideas, as well as offer free downloads of party printables for others to use in their own celebrations. (Happy Blog-iversary to YOU!) So…

I started by designing the printable patterns and party elements – decorative signs, napkin rings, cupcake toppers, labels, etc. At first I wasn’t sure if this theme was going to translate well to printables, but I was actually pretty happy with how they turned out! (Cue a SHINY moment!) I’d wanted them to look computer-ish (I really need some better adjectives to work with here) but also girlie and FUN, so a combo of bright colors, computer generated looking fonts, mod patterns, and sketched word and thought bubbles seemed to do the trick. Here are a few of them:

HWTM 5 Year Blogiversary

HWTM 5 Year Blogiversary

(In case you’re wondering I just used a really small circle cutter to punch centers from regular cookies to make them look like CD-Roms. Easy!)

HWTM 5 Year Blogiversary

So now that the paper elements were done, printed, & cut, it should be easy to whip out a mini photo shoot and get this thing posted right? Wrong. This is where things started their downward spiral…(cue some not-so-shiny moments). I’ll fast forward through all the little “difficulties” that come with just trying to craft, paint, glitter, and glue with a toddler either attached to your leg or to your hip. Instead, let’s just breeze right through to “project: set this thing up”…

And speaking of breeze, that would’ve been nice because the proper term here would be “angry wind“. I’m a stickler for good photography and things photograph SO MUCH BETTER in the natural outdoor light, so i was bound and determined to shoot this in our backyard.

HWTM 5 Year Blogiversary

Things were nice and calm when I started, but unfortunately the wind was unusually present in our backyard all throughout that particular week and was also just as adamant about knocking every single thing over as I was about setting it up…. again, and again, and again…and yet again. Everything would be calm for a bit and I’d think we were home free – grab the camera! – then right at that moment a huge gust would come out of nowhere and send paper elements flying, blow the mac-n-cheese “bytes” into the pool, topple the signs …it was not a pretty picture (pun intended) and it looked absolutely nothing like this:

HWTM 5 Year Blogiversary

HWTM 5 Year Blogiversary

The first day ended up being impossible and I finally gave up by sundown, especially after tiring not just of the wind, but also of listening to my husband/photographer ask why on earth I thought this was going to work at all. (Because I needed it to, that’s why?!).

The next day seemed a little better wind-wise so I got everything set up again, and just when it was all “perfect”, Mother Nature strikes again! Broken glasses, mac-n-cheese on the cement this time, ripped signs, cupcake frosting all over the place… at least the dogs were happy to help clean up this time. Since our fence isn’t exactly sound proof, I’m sure the neighbors were quite aware of how frustrated I was too…oops! :0

Anyways, just as I was about to give up again on day #2 and throw the rest of the props in the pool myself, DH thankfully decided to be more of a cheerleader this time, and we somehow figured it out – more at the turtle’s pace than the hare’s – but we crossed the finish line nonetheless. Sometimes this meant me holding things in place and literally diving out of the shot the minute the wind died down so he could snap a picture – and sometimes it meant fixing the same thing a zillion times until we actually got a picture of it right side up instead of sideways – but one way or another we actually got it done. Here are some more right-side-up pictures:

HWTM 5 Year Blogiversary

HWTM 5 Year Blogiversary

(Like these cute little food stands? They’re called Pastry Pedestals and you can find them right here!)

HWTM 5 Year Blogiversary

And now onto the full-blown crash/spinning-rainbow-wheel-of-death moment of this project (to use a term my fellow mac users can appreciate)…you know those party printables I designed & ended up being so happy with, which I also planned to offer as free downloads to blog readers? Well… I lost them. Or maybe more accurately – my computer ate them. And of course this is BEFORE I was able to share them. *tear* Cue ironic picture below…

HWTM 5 Year Blogiversary

I’m talking every inch of the printables too – not just the downloadable PDF versions, but the original layered photoshop files – which accounts for HOURS of design work – ugh!!! I’m honestly still not quite sure how it happened, but I must’ve somehow either overwritten or permanently deleted that folder along with a couple other recent design projects – bringing the casualties up to at least 20 hours of design work. I’ve seriously never, ever done that before in 12 years of graphic design. Seriously… what was the deal with this project?

After digesting this latest blow and mourning those lost hours/projects for a little while though, I saw this video and decided to get up, dust myself off, and finish this thing once and for all. I’d still like to recreate these printables at some point (ideally in multiple colorways), but for now I’ll have to settle for at least posting the party inspiration and lessons learned. You could still recreate most of these ideas with your favorite papers too – and of course the food ideas, covered CD Roms, stacked paper mache box “cake”, yarn pom signs, etc could be used for all sorts of themes…

HWTM 5 Year Blogiversary

So although this project was a pain in the you-know-what, the important lesson here is that it eventually got done. And while it’s actually a very light hearted metaphor in the scheme of things – when compared to some of the really big issues and lessons we’ve faced/survived these last 5 years at least (maybe there’s another post on that later) – I still can’t help but enjoy a sense of satisfaction in looking at this finished post now, even if it isn’t exactly what I’d originally planned for it to be.

If you’re a blogger, entrepreneur, or really any warm-blooded human being, I’m sure you’ve experienced this sort of lesson one way or another yourself, which is why I leave you again with the video mentioned above. I might not be able to offer you free printables today, so this is my substitute gift… if you’re ever feeling especially down or like you’ve fallen flat on your face with work or any sort of issue in life, take a couple minutes to watch this video. Chances are good it will help reignite your fire, whatever it may be…

Oh – and P.S….

HWTM 5 Year Blogiversary

Jenn =)

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POSTED BY:jenn s.JENNIFER SBRANTI is the Founder and Creative Director of Hostess with the Mostess®, a hip and modern party planning resource.

71 responses to “5 Year BLOGiversary Celebration + The Post That Almost Didn’t Happen”

  1. Adeliene @ Party Dreamers says:


  2. Sandy says:

    Congrats on your 5 year anniversary. I can relate, when planning a party it is perfect in your mind… the magic happens when you can make it a reality. You are an inspiration for many more parties to come. Keep thinking outside the box, and making the old new again!!! Love what you do!! Here’s to the next 5 years.

  3. Fara says:

    This why you are the MOSTESS! I enjoy reading your story, because I totally relate to it! Even the husband thing (they think they know everything, but they don’t…well they do, but what they don’t know is that we always get our way, one way or another, because we makes things work).
    I have been reading your blog for a while and love everything about it. Thanks so much for sharing and for blogging! Congrats in your five year anniversary. Looking forward to reading many more post for many more years!
    BTW: Everything was gorgeous! You totally accomplish the theme! Love it!

  4. What a great blog post! I was cracking up at all of your mishaps(only because i’ve been there!) and then by the end I was in tears watching that video! I was cheering for her in my dining room as she picked herself up and kept Congratulations on your success and here’s hoping many many more years of success!

  5. dulce says:

    Congratulations!! we wish you more to come!! Love all the events you share ;) always so cheerful! XOXO

  6. Tiff says:

    Jenn, I am a huge fan of yours. Thank you for inspiring me ~ crafting, creating, decorating… has been so much fun and nice to share with my family and friends to make them feel special. Keep up the great work!!

  7. Thanks for such a honest post Jenn- It’s refreshing to read, and I’ve been there myself many times in one way or another. Glad you got to it though- those cheeky computer designs are fantastic. Totally unique and clever. Thanks so much for sharing.

  8. Congratulations! I admire how dedicated you are. Love it!

  9. Love HTWM and all the creativity! Congrats & Happy 5th Anni!!!!

  10. Jenn – congratulations on such a momentous occasion!! Thank you for not only setting up a darling display for us lucky readers to enjoy, but for KEEPING IT REAL behind the scenes. You poor girl!! But in the end, you triumphed and I can’t help but think how that same determination, persistence, and hard work has gotten you to where you are today. Happy Blogiversary to you and your team and wishing you continued success in the future (sans the broken glass and macaroni in the pool next time you celebrate!!)

  11. This has to be the best post ever! It was so real and I totally felt like I was right there with you in that wind and willing it to go away! I’m glad you got the shots in the end and thank you for starting your site in the first place. You have always been an inspiration to me and I love seeing the path your career has taken. As always, the details with this party theme were right on and your mix of patterns, sensational! Wising you another amazing 5 years (but with less mac and cheese in the pool). Cheers!

  12. Congrats on your 5th year anniversary! I love stopping by and seeing all of the wonderful inspiration here. I appreciate this “Geek meets Glam” party more than you know! :)

  13. Jenn, I can so relate to this post. I’ve had projects like this and been beyond frustrated when something didn’t go right, but I agree. You just have to finish it. Congrats on a beautiful spread and a wonderful five years. By the way, I LOVE the we {heart} nice comments image. Perfect.

  14. Fernanda says:

    Wow! CONGRATULATIONS! It was worth the wait! I’m glad you waited to show us the final results, so full of creativity and so inspiring!!! My best wishes on your {late} blogiversary and many more!

  15. Party Girl says:

    Congratulations on you’re 5th Blogiversary!!! I look forward to each and every posting and have taken away so many ideas for parties of my own. Thanks for being a kindred spirit and so inspirational…wishing you many more Happy Blogs :)

  16. Renee says:

    Congrats on your 5 years! Great post, I’m so moved. I am 3 days new to blogging to mark my 1 yr. Anniversary on my FB page. You and others are what inspire me! Hope my blog will measure up – I am amazed at all the talent out there. I love the blogging community, because you’re all such special people.

  17. Amazing. Five years in the blogosphere is no small feat! Happy 5th blogiversary, and as usual I love the preparations you made. Mac & Cheese for the win! :D

  18. Elisha Akram says:

    Congrats and Happy 5th Anniversary! Thanks for the inspiration that you give to us ! Love Love the 5th Anniversary virtual party…. You’ve just inspired me for a project!!! Love the video at the end… ! Great Post !

  19. Morgan says:

    Happy {belated} anniversary! I read this post and had to comment… I’ve been reading your blog for five years now and still loving every minute of it.

    A big THANK YOU for meeting with me years ago to share your love of blogging and on pursuing your passions. I still find you as inspiring as ever!

    Hope you and the little one are doing wonderfully (I have one of my own, now!) and CONGRATS to five fabulous years!


  20. Claudia says:

    Greetings from Peru (South America), this is my favorite blog ever, thanks for sharing all these pretty things that besides they are beautiful to look at they widen my heart, begining this year I got some health issues and entering this site made me forget about the difficult time I was going through, it gave me something else to think about, now thanks to God everything bad went away and I am ready to start a new life, of course I got inspired by HWTM and I might start my own busioness in a couple of months, best wishes. and happy anniverrsary…by the way I´ve been following this blog for 3 and 1/2 year now! I love it!

    • jenn s. says:

      Hi Claudia –
      Thanks so much for your support all these years… I’m so happy to hear that the blog was able to help take your mind off the hard stuff in some small way. It sounds like things are looking up for you now – and I hope that continues to be the case! Good luck with everything & take care!

      Jenn :)

  21. Jenn, it has been so nice watching you and your blog & business grow these past 5 years. You are absolutely amazing and deserve all the comments, page views, sharing and anything else good that comes your way! :)

  22. really i do love your creative ideas – happy happy 5 years of blogging , wish you all the best

  23. Ruth says:

    Congrats Jen!! We love you and appreciate you sharing the less than perfect moments that make you well….PERFECT!! Happy 5 years and keep doing what you’re doing!!

  24. Oh my goodness gracious! When I googled BLOG-iversary I found this, and I’m still picking my jaw up off the floor. What amazing, amazing ideas you have. I’m celebrating my 5 years this week and am sending my readers here for you fabulous ideas. Thank you for the inspiration. Hugs!

  25. Vicki Jarrett says:

    Love your ideas and designs! So Creative!

  26. jazzy says:

    i love your blog..i look to it for inspiration for my kids parties every year.

  27. Elisa Duarte says:

    OMG OMG OMG! I’m so in love with this decoration, i just found this! I’m using this as inspiration for my Firts Blogiversary!

    You are SOO talented!!
    Hugs From Dominican Republic