lavender party theme ideas

Today’s Real Party features a lovely lavender theme and was dreamed up by the ultra-creative Ilenia of Simply Nabiki for her mother’s birthday celebration.

Color parties always offer lots of versatility, and this one is full of chic, stylish ideas (and mouth-watering treats!) that would also be perfect for occasions like Mother’s Day or spring bridal showers!

lavender party theme ideas

lavender party theme ideas

Read on for lots more images and the party details, as told by Ilenia


“I was really happy with how this party turned out – and one of the best things was that for the first time my mother didn’t have to tire herself out with all the preparation. Since she didn’t have to worry about doing anything during the party, she was actually able to really enjoy it! At the contrary, I was completely exhausted, but still happy!

lavender party theme ideas

The buffet included both salty and sweet food (as always!).

I made some lavender paper cones to use as creative holders for the forks & napkins and served pistachio meringues (see image #2, above) in a provenzal basket.

lavender party theme ideas

I also made chocolate cake balls rolled in lilac nonpareils (see image #1, at top) and some little french hat cookies. Hats and shoes are two of my mother passions, so I thought it would be fun to incorporate both of them into the food!

lavender party theme ideas

Meat balls were served in unique containers: paper shoes covered with parchment paper! (I followed this template to make the paper shoes.)

lavender party theme ideas

I also made some some lilac & green party picks to decorate the mini sandwiches.

lavender party theme ideas

More sweet treats: vanilla cupcakes with lilac icing & violet flowers and iced cookies in the shape of shoes…

lavender party theme ideas

lavender party theme ideas

Violet marshmallow pops for the little ones:

lavender party theme ideas

Healthier options included veggie baguettes and individual servings of yogurt topped with blackberries:

lavender party theme ideas

lavender party theme ideas

The signature cocktail featured pink grapefruit with blueberry drink stirrers:

lavender party theme ideas

Cheese balls prepared with three different kinds of cheese:

lavender party theme ideas

Last but not least… a salty “cake” for mom!

lavender party theme ideas

Party favors included perfumed drawer sachets, lavender soaps, and gift baskets for my mother’s girlfriends.”

lavender party theme ideas

lavender party theme ideas


Thanks again to Ilenia for all of the beautiful party inspiration!

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Victoria SAYS:

What a lovely table. The paper shoes are my favorite, I hadn’t seen those before. Thanks for sharing!

April 5, 2010 at 5:29 pm

The Fairy SAYS:

Love the paper shoes. I could see those at many different parties or even a bridal shower.

April 5, 2010 at 6:06 pm

Jackie SAYS:

the shoe cookies are amazing!

April 5, 2010 at 6:09 pm


Very sweet! I love the food in the shoes!

Kim @
party inspiration

April 5, 2010 at 6:29 pm

Lila Ferraro SAYS:

That’s a gorgeous and delicious looking spread! I totally want cupcakes and cookies in the shape of shoes!
Lila Ferraro
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April 5, 2010 at 6:41 pm

Stacey SAYS:

Such great details! Can’t wait to try and make those paper shoes!

April 5, 2010 at 8:51 pm

Tamara SAYS:

This could be my favorite party theme so far!! Love it!

April 5, 2010 at 9:06 pm

The Iconic SAYS:

What a wonderful idea!

April 6, 2010 at 12:06 am

Melanie SAYS:

What a beautiful and well-thought out party. I love the lavender and purple colours and particularly the shoes – they add a fun element to the elegant setting.

April 6, 2010 at 4:14 am

Brittany SAYS:

I love this theme! So feminine and sweet! For us novices though… I’d love the recipes, places to buy, and instructions on how to make some of the items!

April 6, 2010 at 7:52 am

Susan Southerland SAYS:

How cute are those hat cookies! I love that the decor, food, and favors are centered around lavender. What a great way to incorporate color, texture, and scent. This could easily be a bridal shower!

April 6, 2010 at 8:02 am

cara SAYS:

Oh my goodness, what a lucky mom + a talented daughter! I wish i could pick out a fave detail, but there’s so much to love — the 75 in the spinach “cake,” the shoes + the meatballs on the rosemary!, the cake cookies, just everything! This is definitely getting bookmarked for ideas for me in the future :)!

April 6, 2010 at 9:09 am

Robin SAYS:

So many thoughtful touches! Would be perfect for a bridal show, mother’s day celebration, baby shower even a spa party as it looks so nice and relaxing! Everything is beautifully presented and you can tell a great deal of love went into this celebration, that has to be the best gift of all!

April 6, 2010 at 10:27 am

Being Wife SAYS:

I am head-over-wife-heels for the FRENCH HAT Cookies! How creative and cute! It is all in the details!

April 6, 2010 at 11:14 am


You did it again, hon. I have to admit I’m getting addicted to your blog. By the way, the sight of those lilac non-pariel coatings on the round cookies made me drool onto my keyboard…is that wrong? Then I don’t wanna be right.

Le yum.

April 6, 2010 at 1:07 pm

Brittany @GreyGrey Designs SAYS:

Wow–these details are blowing my mind.

April 6, 2010 at 1:58 pm

N.Dales SAYS:

They had me at the blueberry stirrers!

April 6, 2010 at 2:39 pm

Anne SAYS:

What a great idea to use blueberries to decorate the drink stirrers. Simple and sweet!

April 7, 2010 at 10:36 am
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